The Grey Zone
- Jul 11, 2017
- 3 min read
So, speaking of what big circles are in nature (will explain below), puts most people in delusion, thinking this is either 100% good or 100% bad, while in fact, it's a blend of both, which means big circles in life has its ups and downs, but at the end, the person life flows according to how he uses them.
Then what are the 'big circles'? They are everything that holds vast amount of details in depth, like saying music is a big circle, because it includes the genres, the vocalists, the lyrics and more. Also saying love is a big circle, as it contains many characteristics like forgiveness, caring and more. Mentioning football as well, because of players, managers, tactics and more. By the way, I meant choosing these examples as I regard them my passion in earth after the Lord with no order, and all of them are 'grey' in nature.
Let's face the truth! Every big circle has its positives and negatives, even the ones with 99% beauty has 1% flaw, nothing is perfect in nature. So regarding my examples, talking about music, you may find a song with spirit-lifting instruments like violin and acoustic, with inspirational lyrics, with impressive vocalists, while on the other hand, you may find a hard metal song that may cause deafness and irritation of nerves, with explicit lyrics, with overrated vocalists, with inappropriate music videos, yeah unfortunately. Regarding football, you may find exceptional players, mindful managers, entertaining tactics, and joy of playing the sport, however, you may find the biased media, boring tactics, arrogant players, non-experienced manager, injuries (the word is enough). Even though, talking about love as a big circle defeats the rest, and I think the reason is obvious, it's love, huh?
"Are you kidding me? How can love be grey?" Yeah, shame it is! The beauty of love includes forgiveness, caring, becoming joyful when the other is, approaching a linkage, caring about the others joy and mood, aiding when possible, a marriage. Now the question is: What are the flaws of love? Guess what? Repeat this paragraph again!
"No! I don't understand, how can love be bad? Impossible" The difference between love and any other big circle, is that any big circle clarifies the positives from the negatives as stated, but regarding love, it depends on the vision of the person. Forgiveness can be an act of appreciation, and also can be a key to belittling the person who forgave and doing the same mistake so that he will keep forgiving. Caring is a pure sign of love, and can be seen as pressure and boredom, same applies to caring about the others mood. Some will see becoming joyful by others joy, a non selfish act, while it can be seen selfish. Approaching a friendship can be a key to a happy life, and can be a key of misunderstandings and resentments as well. Aiding can be a pure sign of love too, and also sign of seeking praise. A marriage can be a heaven, and a hell!
But you know what's worse? The pessimism! In other words, expecting the action to be of bad intentions, while it can be good. You know what's even worse? Trying convincing them with your intentions and they don't believe. People turn to judges without even taking a step closer to their people, like how did you know it's bad? Dude, it's only pessimism!
Regarding any big circle, any person can enjoy the good side and avoiding the bad, but regarding love, it's your vision and reassurance that will decide if love is good or bad. Would anything cost you if you are even 1% optimistic? Would anything cost you if you took the step and made sure if he/she is saying the truth or not? Always be expecting the good, and when you make sure of the actions, you have the right to judge then, don't rush yourself.
Thank you for reading!
N.B: Sins are the only exception, as they are 100% bad!
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